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Going through it?
We're glad you found us. 

Whatever brought you here, you don't have to explain it perfectly. Start wherever you are.

If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or call 911.

We're a small team and can't respond to emergencies.

I need to talk to someone who gets it.

Start with the resources below. These are people and organizations we trust.

I need help paying for something.

The Hayter Fund will offer grants to help with costs tied to grief, family building, and mental health. Applications aren't open yet. Join the list below and you'll be the first to know when they are.

I want to share my story.

Sometimes saying it out loud is the first step.

We’re building something bigger: a full, searchable hub of the people and places that actually help. Until then, here are a few we trust. Know one we’re missing? Submit it above.

Grief & Loss Resources

Grief support for children, teens, and families. 

Honest community and writing about life after loss. 

Support after pregnancy and infant loss.

24/7 support in any crisis, including grief.

Family Building & Parenthood Resources

Infertility support groups, education, and advocacy.

Resources for LGBTQ+ family building.

Support for perinatal and postpartum mental health.

Support after pregnancy and infant loss.

Mental Health & Invisible Illness Resources

24/7 crisis support

24/7 support by text.

Mental health education, support groups, and a helpline.

Free, confidential treatment referrals for mental health and substance use. 

New Jersey mental health information and referrals. 

Hayter Fund

What we expect to help with

  • Funeral and memorial costs

  • Fertility treatment, IVF, adoption, and other family building costs

  • Medical bills tied to illness or pregnancy

  • Counseling, therapy, and addiction treatment

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Whenever possible, grants are paid directly to the provider (the funeral home, the clinic, the counselor). Funding is limited, so not every application can be approved.

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